You and your family and friends are blessed and healed by the Divya Pragya Param Siddha Shri Shri MahaAvatar Babaji!
We should use our intelligence and judgement while helping others. If we help a person to help himself, then that will be a long lasting help rather than just giving alms to fulfill a few days needs.
Helps for education, skill development, starting a small business or finding a job/work are the best in this context as they will help the recipient to earn his own livelihood.
The objective of our help should be to make the person independent and not a parasite/dependable.
May God bless us with the wisdom to help people to become independent!
Tathastu! Swasti Siddham! Amen! So Be It!