NO BACKBITING, ONLY BACK-PRAISING PLEASE!
We should resist backbiting, though some people have done apparent injustice or harm to us. It is human to get hurt by unruly or unexpected behaviour of people. It is also common to get disturbed by unfriendly treatment against our friendly behaviour. However, more we relive such incidents, more we are disturbed.
We should focus and talk about people who support us, encourage and motivate us. We should remember people who are affectionate, loving and caring. More we remember and talk about them, more happier we become.
Unfortunately, we will have some close relatives or so called good friends in the first category and distant relatives or strangers in the second category. Well, that’s life and we have to live with it.
May God bless us with the wisdom to remember only good people and good incidents!
Tathastu! Swasti Siddham! Amen! So Be It!