NO ONE IS PERFECT, ACCEPT THE OTHER PERSON AS HE/SHE IS!
We spend considerable energy in changing other person as per our notions of correctness and perfection. Little do we realise that every person is okay, the way he/she is, unless the desire or need for change stems from within.
We cannot and should not try to change the other person, unless we are fostered in that role, being a parent, teacher, mentor, coach, guru or like. That too with caution and appropriate to the title/role that we are assigned.
The best thing is to accept the other person as he/she is, as we too, are not perfect. Some fine-tuning may be required to adjust with each other. In fact, ‘adjustment’, solves the issues of compatibility.
May God bless us with the wisdom to accept, adjust and appreciate our close relatives!
Tathastu! Swasti Siddham! Amen! So Be It!