FOCUS ON EFFECTS AND NOT DEFECTS OF A PERSON!
Relationship is more about acceptance than expectations. It is more about understanding than debating. It is more about compromise and not proving someone wrong.
We often stretch our arguments beyond tolerance. Dale Carnegie has said, “to get the best of an argument is to avoid it”. Period! Don’t argue. Accept the other person as he/she is.
To build a healthy relationship, we should focus on agreements rather than disagreements; we should focus on good qualities of a person than his/her bad habits; we should remember good words/praise rather than criticism.
May God bless us with the wisdom to focus on right things rather than wrong ones!
Tathastu! Swasti Siddham! Amen! So Be It!