You and your family and friends are blessed and healed by Divya Pragya Param Siddha Shri Shri MahaAvatar Babaji!
Our help should be judicious. We should not help someone who refuses to help himself due to laziness and lethargy.
Just as over protection may endanger one’s survival in the competitive world, over help may make a person parasite and useless.
Unless a butterfly 
fights to come out of the cocoon, it can never develop the strength to fly. Thus, struggle in life is necessary to succeed. We should extend a little help, just enough to give a push in one’s struggle to succeed.
May God bless us with the wisdom to extend right amount of help at the right time to a right person!
Tathastu! Swasti Siddham! Amen! So Be It!